What’s my secret to staying in business?
Do you want to know my secret as to why I’m so amazing and successful?
It’s not what you think.
I still have days when I think I’m stupid, ugly, and boring.
I imagine nobody cares about what I have to say and that all the landscapes Flourish, my landscape company, makes are ugly.
So, every now and then I take a nap because I hate the way my mind is speaking in a negative tone and that’s the best way to shut it up.
Once the funk passes, I ask myself what was it all about?
Surely, I’m not stupid, ugly, or boring.
Evaluate your negative self-talk
Flourish landscapes are the bomb, so that’s silly to think they are ugly.
Whatever the answer is that I receive, I go into it.
By diving inside our insecurities, we build strength.
It was in doing this for the very first time with the help of someone else who was in their power that leads me to my first large breakthrough.
Therefore, I needed to get guidance from a person who understood ways of tackling problems I couldn’t think of.
Smarter, faster, and more wasn’t the answer.
When my business was failing and my personal life really sucking, my first session with my first coach shined a light so bright I realized that those negative self-talk days were just going to happen.
It’s what we do with these thoughts that matter.
Everyone beats themselves up in their minds.
You just ignore the less sticky thoughts and the ones that seem to be informing your behaviors are where you need to dig.
Your thoughts aren’t you, but they can rule your world if you let them.
Now that I am working on more creative projects than ever, there are more thoughts that bubble up. I’m more vulnerable here, but also more powerful.
These projects are very fulfilling, yet I worked very hard to make space for them.
Writing a book, learning guitar, having plenty of time for friends?
If I have one regret, it would be that I didn’t get help sooner.
Manifesting is all about taking the sticky pieces and learning to let them go.
My secret is that I am never on this path alone.
I chose to be awesome and successful and I will hire all the people that are required to help me.
I don’t care who thinks that’s selfish, and I want you to be awesome and successful, too.
So, what is it that I could share with you today that would help you with where you are right now?
Reply back and let me know.
By the way, I have a couple of spots left in my private coaching program right now. Book a call with me below to see if we’re a fit! I’d be honored to hear from you.