February can be like a ‘now what?’ kind of month. By that I mean, you have ideas about how you would like the year to pan out and you are waiting for the year to unfold, the weather to turn, for after your vacation, or a number of other excuses. What are you doing in these moments? Wasting time.
How do I know?
I am a recovering Time Waster.
Hands down, I am the Suze Orman of Time Wasting. I know how to pretend to be doing something important, I know how to bullshit about being on the ball when I know I’m not, I know how to make time wasting look like a really goal oriented time, and I also have that special talent of being pretty productive while wasting time. When I say that time is being wasted is to say that time is not being spent on achieving or being that which you truly desire. Thing is, we can want something like better friends, a new job, a million dollars, or to be an artist and then spend all our time and energy doing everything but attaining that goal.
We pretend to pursue, and then drive off the road when we are almost there.
Our subconscious takes over due to fear. Fear of attaining it, fear of succeeding, fear of leaving others behind, fear of change, fear of your own power, fear of whatever.
I help people see the results they are looking for. I live in the ‘now what’ with them – the moment when they’ve decided, and are acting upon that which they really want to do, be, and have. Why am I qualified to do this? Because I personally know all the ins and outs of how people try their darndest to stay stuck in the middle of a breakthrough.
The first step of a breakthrough is to decide. Then you have to act. So I’m asking, now what?